My wife also watches "The Bachelor Pad" and I know exactly what you are talking about. "She was really mean to Hunter and I!!!!!"
I haven't been bored enough to watch talk shows or stuff like "The Bachelor Pad," but people use "he" and "she" incorrectly all the time too. They apparently think it sounds more intelligent. Hey people, sometimes "him" and "her" and actually correct! And, in a similar situation to your example, they often use "myself" when "me" is correct. "She was really mean to Hunter and myself!!!!!"
Just take out the "Hunter and" and see what works, then use it!